Title: The reality of unofficial unions: the story of Yunusa and Abosede
Introduction :
When we talk about life as a couple and family, we often talk about marriage and traditions. However, there are relationships that do not follow traditional conventions, and the story of Yunusa and Abosede is a striking example. Their union, although not formalized according to traditional laws, had profound consequences on their lives and that of their child. In this article, we’ll explore different aspects of their tumultuous relationship and reflect on the place of commitment and responsibility in unofficial unions.
The conflict between Yunusa and Abosede:
Yunusa accuses Abosede of being short-tempered, constantly fighting with people in the neighborhood. He says he is dissatisfied with the level of immorality Abosede instilled in their child. In addition, he claims that his wife is a big spender and that she wastes the income from her business. Yunusa even asks for custody of their child, saying Abosede is not a responsible mother.
Abosede’s response:
Abosede, for her part, rejects most of the accusations made against her by Yunusa. She points out that her husband has always been neglectful towards their child, even refusing to pay his school fees. She also claims that she is Yunusa’s sixth wife and that he married another woman when she was three months pregnant. She also invokes her quest for divine support to deal with difficulties in her marriage.
The court’s judgment:
The Chief Justice, S.M. Akintayo, concluded that there was no marriage to be dissolved between Yunusa and Abosede because their union was not based on traditional laws. It is recalled that the payment of the dowry and the celebration of customs are essential elements for a traditional marriage to be considered valid. Mere cohabitation and the birth of children are not sufficient to establish a legal marriage.
Conclusion :
Yunusa and Abosede’s story highlights the realities of unofficial unions and the consequences they can have on the lives of couples and their children. She also highlights the importance of commitment and responsibility in romantic and family relationships. Whether through marriage or other forms of validation, it is essential to be aware of the legal and social consequences of our choices.