**Fatshimetrie, July 2, 2024 – The importance of self-esteem in the fight against gender-based violence**
In our modern society, marked by gender issues and challenges linked to violence, self-esteem emerges as a crucial bulwark to prevent and combat gender-based violence (GBV). An essential awareness that Carlin Vese Pinzi, expert in gender, positive masculinity and femininity, forcefully promotes in a recent interview with Fatshimetrie.
Self-esteem, the pillar of self-confidence and healthy relationships, is a deep personal construct that shapes our interactions with the world around us. It is in this regard that Vese strongly encourages young adolescents, particularly young girls, to question their own image and to cultivate strong inner confidence. Indeed, the way we perceive ourselves directly influences our self-esteem, thus conditioning our interpersonal relationships.
Through his commitment within the Network of Men Committed to Gender Equality in the DRC (RheegRDC), Carlin Vese highlights the importance of valuing oneself and others to build a harmonious society, respectful of diversity . Each individual, bearer of unique values and talents, deserves to be recognized and encouraged in their singularity.
“Learning to appreciate yourself, to recognize and celebrate differences, constitutes the basis of good mental health and fulfilling relationships,” he emphasizes with conviction. The prevention of violence, whether physical, psychological or social, begins with a sincere recognition of the qualities of each person, by highlighting skills and abilities that are often underestimated.
In this quest for a more respectful and inclusive society, Carlin Vese recommends an approach imbued with positivity and kindness. Inviting everyone to favor constructive thoughts and words, he calls for a profound change in mentalities, a transformation of speeches and attitudes. By highlighting the qualities and talents of others, by encouraging exchanges marked by respect and listening, we contribute together to creating an environment conducive to personal development and the reduction of violent behavior.
Thus, beyond simple recommendations, Carlin Vese Pinzi reminds us that self-esteem, nourished by mutual recognition and the valorization of singularities, constitutes the true foundation on which to build an egalitarian society respectful of the dignity of each person. By cultivating this inner confidence and respect for others, we are laying the foundations of a world where gender-based violence no longer has its place. A call to action, an invitation to reflection, for a future of tolerance and harmony.