Leap year is a special occasion that only comes around every four years, bringing with it its share of unique traditions and beliefs across different cultures. One of the most widespread customs is that which allows women to propose to their partner.
In Ireland and the United Kingdom, this tradition is said to have been started by Saint Patrick or Saint Bridget in the 5th century, in response to women’s complaints about the slowness of men to propose. February 29 thus became a time when gender roles were reversed, allowing women to take the initiative in love and courting. According to some variations of the tradition, if a man refused a woman’s request, he had to compensate her with a kiss, a silk robe, or twelve pairs of gloves.
In Denmark, refusal of a marriage proposal on February 29 results in the woman being given twelve pairs of gloves, in an attempt to cover up her embarrassment at not having an engagement ring. In Finland, if the proposal is rejected, the man must compensate by buying enough fabric for the woman to make a skirt.
In other parts of the world, February 29 is also surrounded by special beliefs. For example, in Italy, the leap year is considered to bring bad luck, with the expression “Anno bisesto, anno funesto” suggesting that leap years bring bad luck.
In Scotland, it was considered unlucky to be born on February 29, as were some superstitions surrounding Friday the 13th in other cultures. Children born on this day, also called “leaplings”, were subject to difficulties and misfortunes throughout their lives.
In Greece, getting married in a leap year, or even on February 29, is also considered unlucky, with many couples avoiding planning their wedding during a leap year for fear that it would bring unhappiness to their union.
These traditions highlight the cultural importance attached to the day of February 29, a date that stands out not only for its rarity, but also for the customs and legends that surround it. Although not all cultures have specific traditions for February 29, the day often sparks interest and celebration simply because it is an unusual date that brings a unique twist to the calendar.